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The unofficial rules of the road

The unofficial rules of the road

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Don’t be that person everyone hates on a road trip.

Learning to drive means following the law, like using turn signals, for example. However, some of the most important road rules aren’t covered in driver’s ed.

1. Calling shotgun has responsibilities.

Great power comes with great responsibility. If you have the front seat, you need to set the air conditioning to the likes of the other passengers. You also need to take care of the driver, which includes passing them water, warning them of speed cameras and passing around any food. Finally, and most importantly, riding shotgun means you’re in charge of navigating.

2. Passengers must chip in for gas.

This mainly comes into play on road trips or longer drives, but it may also be an issue if the driver is the main source of transportation in your group of friends.

The main points to keep in mind are how long you’re traveling for, the costs tacked on by each passenger for other parts of the trip and whether the driving is being shared. If you’re not helping pay for gas, think about helping in other ways, like buying snacks. The bottom line? Don’t be cheap — chip in for gas.

3. The front seats are in charge of the tunes.

Who’s in charge of the music was a hotly debated issue among the finder.com team. If you’re the driver, you can pull the “my car, my rules” trump card and choose the music yourself, enlisting the help of your shotgun passenger to DJ.

However, the front seat passenger, as the DJ, also has a right to choose some of the music and becomes de facto in charge if the driver relinquishes their rights. Apart from complaining, if you’re in the back seat, there’s nothing you can do.

One idea to keep the peace if everyone has different tastes in music is to offer veto powers. Everyone gets to veto a certain number of songs they can’t stand, like that pop song the radio station’s already played six times in a row.

4. Warn other drivers of danger.

This is an unspoken classic. If there’s an accident, deer crossing or other danger on the road that drivers might want to avoid, you can flash your lights at oncoming cars to warn them. Keep in mind that doing this to warn drivers of upcoming police is illegal in some states.

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5. Do the courtesy wave.

If someone is nice enough to let you into their lane, you have to do that awkward little wave. It’s non-optional. If you wave like a normal person, you look weird. If you don’t wave at all, that’s just rude.

6. Decide on picking up hitchhikers as a group.

Hitchhiking is more common in other countries, especially in Europe, but you may come across some hitchhikers while driving in the US, especially in more rural areas. This is why it helps to have a steadfast rule about whether you’ll offer a ride.

Generally, it’s up to whoever owns the car, but a good driver will put it to a vote. Always remember to use a good sense of judgement, and don’t offer a ride to anyone who looks dangerous.

7. No slug backs means no slug backs.

Slug bug rules: if you see a VW Beetle, you yell out “slug bug, no slug backs” or “punch buggy no punch backs.” As long as you say “no slug backs,” they can’t punch you back. There’s isn’t any recourse for this. You just can’t do it. It’s un-American.

Take advantage of this fun tradition while you can, considering Volkswagen’s announcement that the iconic “Bug” will no longer be in production in the next few years.

Punch buggy vs slug bug

The game where the first person to see a Volkswagen Beetle is always a hit on road trips. But what you call that game is highly regional. According to Google Trends data, most people from East Coast states call it Punch Buggy compared to Midwest residents calling it Slug Bug. At least you can always have fun arguing over what to call out when you do see a VW bug. Just remember there’s an unspoken rule not to hit the driver.

Map of what people call the Punch Buggy game by state

List of what people call the Punch Buggy game by state

StateName
ALNeither
AKNeither
AZSlug bug
ARNeither
CAPunch dub
COSlug bug
CTPunch buggy
DCPunch buggy
DENeither
FLPunch buggy
GAPunch buggy
HINeither
IDNeither
ILPunch buggy
INSlug bug
IANeither
KSSlug bug
KYNeither
LANeither
MENeither
MDPunch buggy
MAPunch buggy
MIPunch buggy
MNSlug bug
MSNeither
MOSlug bug
MTNeither
NESlug bug
NVSlug bug
NHNeither
NJPunch buggy
NMSlug bug
NYPunch buggy
NCPunch buggy
NDNeither
OHPunch dub
OKSlug bug
ORSlug bug
PAPunch buggy
RINeither
SCPunch buggy
SDNeither
TNPunch buggy
TXPunch buggy
UTSlug bug
VTNeither
VAPunch buggy
WASlug bug
WVNeither
WISlug bug
WYNeither

8. Always stop for McDonald’s.

McDonald’s is one of the fast food haunts many Americans will remember from family road trips. This makes it a nostalgic stop for long trips. Plus, the toilets are clean, as your grandma always used to point out.

Even when you’re driving in the middle of nowhere, you’ll come across fast food sooner or later. Road rules demand that you should make a stop.

9. The navigator gets the phone charger.

This is one of the most complicated road rules, divvying up usage of the car charger requires a complicated algorithm. Variables include whose phone is playing music, who needs access to work emails, charging times of various phone models, current battery percentages and general ability to shout “But it’s my turn!”

Unless your phone is running Google Maps. The navigator always wins. Guess you should’ve called shotgun.

10. Snack buying is a group activity.

This is generally split, or you take turns buying the snacks. If you want anything out of the ordinary that makes it more expensive (think opting out of a two-for-one deal because someone wants a different brand of chips), then they need to pay for their own chips.

11. The driver is in charge of air conditioning.

As this relates to gas, it’s the driver’s decision whether to keep the windows down or keep the air conditioning on. Driving at highway speeds, you’ll save money by using the air conditioning, but there’s just something about driving with the windows down and the radio up on a summer day.

Bottom line

If you’re heading out on an epic road trip, then load up on snacks, bring plenty of drinks and make sure to obey the rules of the road — both clearly marked and unwritten. And consider getting a car insurance policy that offers roadside assistance in case you break down on the way.

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Elizabeth Barry

Elizabeth Barry is Finder's global fintech editor. She has written about finance for over five years and has been featured in a range of publications and media including Seven News, the ABC, Mamamia, Dynamic Business and Financy. Elizabeth has a Bachelor of Communications and a Master of Creative Writing from the University of Technology Sydney. In 2017, she received the Highly Commended award for Best New Journalist at The Lizzies. Elizabeth has found writing about innovations in financial services to be her passion (which has surprised no one more than herself).

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