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Where to buy adult toys online in South Africa

If you're looking to spice things up, we've found the best sites to buy sex toys online.

It used to be the case that if you wanted to buy adult products, you’d have to sneak into (often questionable) stores and likely blush with embarrassment as you perused the wares.

Thankfully, those days are over. Now you can browse in the privacy of your own home and have your purchases delivered discreetly to your door. Check out this range of online stores where you can buy adult toys online and even get yourself some great deals to boot.

Top sites to buy adult toys online

  • Desir
  • Play With Me
  • The Adult Shop

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Secret Corner

Secret Corner is a South African Sex Toy Shop that stocks a wide range of vibrators, dildos, bondage gear & Lingerie for men and women. Order online and get 100% discreet delivery to your door, postnet or paxi in 1 – 3 days.

  • Global best selling sex toys
  • Sex Toys for Men, Women & Couples
  • Years of experience and friendly staff
  • Order via Whatsapp, online or visit one of our stores
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Amazon sells thousands upon thousands of different items all in the one place – sex toys included. And if you’re an Amazon Prime member, you can get all your adult purchases shipped conveniently and for free.

  • Free delivery on millions of eligible items with Amazon Prime
  • Easily compare prices on similar products
  • Huge product range

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Whatever you’re looking for, eBay will have it. So if you’re looking for a range of sex toys or play items from loads of different brands, eBay is a good place to start. eBay also makes it really easy to compare prices and shipping deals.

  • Free delivery on eligible items with eBay Plus
  • Trusted online marketplace
  • View seller reviews before you buy
  • Compare prices from sellers around the world

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AliExpress is a massive online retailer made up of thousands of smaller retailers. These retailers often stock and sell adult toys, so there’s an abundance of options available.

  • Delivery via the post office is free, but will take longer
  • Huge selection of smaller retailers means there’s always stock
  • Easily compare prices
  • Constant sales make it easy to find the best deals
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Hailing from Cape Town, this online adult store specialises in designer brands and the luxury market. You may pay a bit more at Desir, but you get what you pay for.

  • Free delivery on orders over R745
  • Products are made with high-quality materials
  • Stress-testing ensures items will last long
  • Stocks a massive range of different products

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Play With Me

If you’re looking for a dependable adult store that stocks everything you need, then Play With Me should be at the top of your list.

  • Free delivery on orders over R750
  • Regular promotions mean you can save more
  • Shop by brand to find what you’re looking for
  • Big range of products on offer

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The Adult Shop

This new Zando offshoot doesn’t just sell lingerie, it offers a wide variety of adult toys and accessories. Your items will be delivered in a regular nondescript Zando box and non-transparent bag.

  • Free delivery on orders over R400
  • The Adult Shop name won’t appear on your receipts
  • Discreet packaging
  • Find exclusive offers on the Zando mobile app

Which of these retailers offer free delivery?

  • Amazon: Free delivery on millions of eligible items with Amazon Prime
  • Ebay: Free delivery on eligible items with eBay Plus
  • AliExpress: Delivery via the post office is free, but will take longer
  • Desir: Free delivery on orders over R745
  • Play With Me: Free delivery on orders over R750
  • The Adult Shop: Free delivery on orders over R400

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