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Car buying guide: Finding the safest car for your family

In the market for a new family-friendly car? Here's a guide to finding the safest one.

There’s a lot to think about when you buy a new car – how much you want to spend, whether to opt for new or used, which model and which colour. When you factor your family into the car-buying decision, there seems to be a lot more to think about.

What do you need to think about when picking a family-friendly vehicle, and what features will keep your family not only happy, but safe too? The guide below will take you through everything you should consider when it comes to safe family cars, plus a few extra things to keep in mind.

What are ASEAN NCAP safety ratings?

In operation since 2011, the New Car Assessment Program for Southeast Asian Countries (ASEAN NCAP) has been providing consumers with information about their protection in crashes. It does this by analysing a vehicle’s ability to protect vehicle occupants in a crash, to educate consumers about vehicle safety features and a host of other things. It then awards a vehicle a star rating out of five.

Currently, the ASEAN NCAP member organizations include:

  • Malaysian Institute of Road Safety Research (MIROS)
  • Global New Car Assessment Program (GNCAP)
  • Automobile Association of Malaysia (AAM)
  • Automobile Association of Singapore (AA Singapore)
  • Automobile Association of the Philippines (AAP)

From 2012 to 2016, ASEAN NCAP provided separate ratings for Adult Occupant Protection (AOP) and Child Occupant Protection (COP). However, newly implemented protocols from 2017 to 2020 will include a more comprehensive side-impact test and conclusive rating, whereby AOP and COP will account for 50% and 25% of the score respectively, and another 25% for Safety Assist Technologies (SATs).

  • Compare vehicles across similar categories. According to ASEAN NCAP, “Large and small car results cannot be taken as an apple-to-apple comparison… In fact, the occupants of the heavier car or the car with higher structure tend to fare better than the occupants in a lighter and lower car.” You should compare similarly-weighted vehicles, in which the mass is in the range of ±150kg (recommended range for comparison), or vehicles of the same make, such as SUVS against other SUVs, to see which one has the better rating. Also, don’t assume larger vehicles are safer, as this is not always the case.
  • Understand the safety features available. New cars coming onto the market have a variety of safety features. ASEAN NCAP has since implemented new protocols and increased standards for what it will take a vehicle to get five stars, so manufacturers are always looking for ways to make vehicles safer. Browse through ASEAN NCAP’s website to learn more about the tests and features available.

What do parents think about when buying cars?

It’s easy to have a list of the ten safest cars of 2018, but what will actually work best for you and your family? We spoke to some of the finder Singapore parents to find out their experiences with finding cars: what vehicles they drove, what features were most important to them and what their tips were for other parents.

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Child seats were a common theme in our respondents’ answers. Sandy upgraded to a new Volkswagen Tiguan for its reputation as a safe, family-friendly vehicle. “We were running out of room in our old car (a Mazda 3), it was feeling very congested which made me worry about the safety implications,” she said.

Bernard, a finder Singapore dad, talked about the importance of having an accommodating vehicle when he opted for ridesharing. “As my daughter is so young, it’s important for me to have a car that can easily fit a child seat,” he said. “As we don’t own a car, I need to be able to install and remove it on a frequent basis.” He says he considered purchasing a new car but since GrabFamily cars were introduced in 2017, he’d rather pay a little more for rides equipped with child-booster seats. GrabFamily rides cost $2 to $4 more than the usual GrabCar fare, depending on the number of seats used.

Airbags and safety also ranked high on Charles’ list and made him want to replace his car with a more family-friendly vehicle.


While the size of a vehicle directly correlates to a vehicle’s safety, it’s important to note that this does not mean “bigger is better”. It means the ability to safely secure items in your car and boot and sufficient leg and headroom for passengers ranked highly for safety.

Size also ranked highly for many of the finder Singapore parents. “You don’t realise how difficult it can be to get kids and their stuff in and out of cramped spaces,” one respondent said. “The car seat might fit in your MINI Cooper, but your back will hate you when you’re getting in and out.” Remember everything you need to fit in your vehicle when you have a family. Even with one child, it means a pram, a car seat, bags, toys and anything else they might need.

However, going out and buying the largest car may not be the best option. “While the appeal for a large SUV exists, particularly for the extra interior space, it may be more practical to downsize,” says Scott. “This is in order to provide some extra room outside the vehicle when loading and unloading children in busy or narrow car parks.”

Fuel efficiency

While vehicle safety and fuel efficiency don’t always go hand in hand, it’s an important factor to consider when purchasing a family vehicle. As Sandy noted, “Parenting is expensive enough without having to worry every time you need to fill up!” Most parents we spoke to did minimal driving during the week but drove around extensively on the weekend taking their kids to weekend activities. Without a fuel-efficient vehicle, the petrol costs can add up quickly.


Bernard, who opted for car-sharing service Grab rather than buying a new car, said “We didn’t own a car before, and we still don’t. And due to the availability of family-friendly ridesharing services such as GrabFamily, we are able to hire a car equipped with child-booster seats by paying just $2 to $4 more from our usual GrabCar fares.” Bernard also says that such convenience makes family outings a lot easier as the larger vehicles can also accommodate extra items such as prams.

Another benefit of opting for a car-sharing service is the vehicles all have to pass rigorous safety checks.

The little things

  • Air conditioning. Alex says, “Believe me, you don’t want to be in a car with a malfunctioning air-condition in Singapore’s weather, especially with a cranky toddler”.
  • Charging. Kids have gadgets, and on longer drives they tend to drain the battery. Make sure you have extra chargers and dual ports to recharge when you can.smiling-baby-in-car
  • Entertainment and comfort. Keeping your children happy in the car can be hard, but having the wrong car can make it harder. Features such as iPod connectivity so they can listen to their own music or DVDs in backseat headrests can keep them quiet. Another great tip from Charles is making sure the seats are high enough that they can see out of the window.
  • Hands-free entry. This was recommended by more than one of our parents. When you’re trying to get one or more children in the car and juggling bags, you can see why keyless entry would be a handy feature.
  • Car-seat friendly vehicle. Make sure the vehicle fits your child-booster seat, but also that you have enough room for everything else as well. You can also find vehicles with purposely-built child seat attachment points to make things even easier.

Extra tips from the finder Singapore parents

  • “Choose practical over pretty. Go for the dark interior over the gorgeous white fabric (it’s easier to hide the mess kids inevitably make!). Similarly, two car doors may have once appealed to you but four doors are definitely the way to go when kids are involved.”
  • “Get a cheap car. It’s inevitable that a car whose primary purpose it transporting young children will get trashed over time. Consider saving your dream car purchase for when your children are of an age when they are less likely to damage your expensive toys. Cost and ease of maintenance also play a part here.”
  • “Remember your kids will likely have friends, so try to plan for your family plus an extra two seats.”
  • “Do your research. Chat with friends, family and other parents about their experiences and keep this in mind when searching for the perfect car for your own family.”
  • “When we had our baby on the way we weren’t sure of our options. We did consider buying a car but ended up investing in a child seat and paid additional for child-friendly car share. As car prices are exorbitant in Singapore and rideshare options are aplenty, you may want to save the car ownership costs for your child’s education instead.”

Car safety checklist

Keeping the following things in mind when test-driving vehicles can help you weed out any unsafe cars early on, and end up with a safe car that you’d be happy to purchase:

  • What you’re buying the car for. Think about how you’ll be driving the car and make sure the vehicle has the features to support you. Check for off-road or long distance travel suitability if you plan to take your family for weekend trips across the border, look for child restraints, towing capabilities and see if there’s sufficient storage for your needs.
  • Airbags. Check for dual front airbags, curtain airbags and side impact protection, side airbags and knee airbags.
  • General crash protection. Ensure the car has load limiter seat belts, an anti-whiplash system, adjustable head restraints, a cargo barrier and crumple zones.
  • Child restraints. Ensure that the car can fit most child car seats safely and comfortably, and still has sufficient room for other child essentials, such as prams.
  • Features to avoid crashes. See if there is cruise control, active cruise control and traction control, and also check for a reverse camera and sensors. A light car colour can also help for visibility. An anti-lock braking system, electronic stability control and emergency brake assist can also help with crash avoidance.
  • Features to avoid. Very large cars, such as 4WDs, can cause unnecessary injuries when they crash. Make sure you check the ASEAN NCAP safety ratings before you purchase a vehicle.

A safe family vehicle doesn’t have to be hard to find if you know what you’re looking for. After researching the market and considering your options, you’ll be one step closer to getting on the road.

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