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40th wedding anniversary gifts | April 2018

Here’s how to choose the best gifts for your spouse, parents, or friends who are celebrating this special day.

A 40th wedding anniversary is a special time for any couple. The occasion is marked by a celebration of the years spent together. The couple and their loved ones will want to offer gifts as a sign of appreciation and love, but it can be difficult to decide what to buy. Here’s our best advice for finding a gift worthy of a 40th anniversary.

For her: Best anniversary gifts for your wife

She’s the one for you: you’ve stuck by her for 40 years. So find that one perfect gift for her: we’ve got some ideas.

Sterling Silver Gemstone and White Sapphire Wrapped Heart Pendant
Sterling Silver Gemstone and White Sapphire Wrapped Heart Pendant

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Written in the Stars by Teleflora
Written in the Stars by Teleflora

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For him: Best anniversary gifts for your husband

He’s done so much for you over the years, it makes sense you’d want to do something in return. Here are some ideas to get you started.

Citizen Men's BL5250-02L Titanium Eco-Drive Watch with Leather Band
Citizen Men's BL5250-02L Titanium Eco-Drive Watch with Leather Band

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Personalized BBQ Tool Set including Canvas Tote with Font Selection
Personalized BBQ Tool Set including Canvas Tote with Font Selection

Amazon

Best 40th wedding anniversary gifts for your parents

Your parents have stayed together for 40 years! What an incredible feat. Let us help you find a gift worthy of the celebration.

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Gift them an experience that they will never forget -- from Race a Ferrari to Drive a NASCAR.

A Dozen Red Roses With Bear and Godiva Chocolates
A Dozen Red Roses With Bear and Godiva Chocolates

JustFlowers

Le Creuset Signature Enameled Cast-Iron 5-1/2-Quart Round French Oven
Le Creuset Signature Enameled Cast-Iron 5-1/2-Quart Round French Oven

Amazon

Written in the Stars by Teleflora
Written in the Stars by Teleflora

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7-Inch Large Clear Glass Hanging Air Plant Terrarium Ball
7-Inch Large Clear Glass Hanging Air Plant Terrarium Ball

Amazon

Sterling Silver Gemstone and White Sapphire Wrapped Heart Pendant
Sterling Silver Gemstone and White Sapphire Wrapped Heart Pendant

Amazon

Gift ideas for 40th wedding anniversaries

Here’s some information on traditions surrounding 40th wedding anniversaries.

AnniversaryTraditional symbolModern giftGemstoneFlowerColor
40thRubyRubyRubyGladiolusRuby red

Interestingly, ruby is the traditional and modern official gift for this anniversary, unlike other anniversaries which have different official gifts for the traditional and modern theme. This makes your work a lot more simple.

Rubies are a great gift idea, and for the woman, any piece of beautiful jewelry will do. For the man, a pair of cuff links, a watch, or a ring with the gemstone, will work fine. However, gemstones don’t come cheap, especially rubies, so you’ll be glad to know that there are some other ideas you can use for this anniversary.

For the couple, try surprising your spouse with a vacation. This could be a second honeymoon in your dream location. New additions to the home are good gift ideas, too. Perhaps new indoor or outdoor furniture, a new oven, grill, or even a home makeover.

For family and friends, there are various types of gifts that you can give to the special couple. However, you need to be creative with your gift. Photos are always a good idea, especially if they come from the couple’s children. However, you might want to consider having a scrapbook with illustrations as opposed to yet another album or picture frame. You could also pay for a trip that the couple will enjoy. Remember: it’s all about the couple, so consider their preferences.

40th wedding anniversary gift giving tips

While there are both modern and traditional or official gifts, you don’t necessarily have to go with them. You can choose to buy a different item you know the recipient will love.

Below are additional pointers to consider when selecting a gift for the couple.

  • Age:Make sure to buy a respectful and appropriate gift for the recipient’s age.
  • Relationship with the couple: Your relationship with the couple also matters. For example, the couple’s children may get away with goofy gifts. However, friends and other relatives might want to have more subtle and sentimental gifts.
  • Value: When selecting a gift, think about its value… and we’re not talking about the cost of the gift. Ask yourself if the gift is useful to the couple. Will they enjoy it? Or is this one of those gifts that will be kept in the attic and never to be seen again?

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How to choose the best 40th wedding anniversary gift

With a precious stone and the color of love and passion to use as inspiration, you’re sure to choose the perfect 40th anniversary gift.

  • Do your research. Get your detective hat on and find out what they most desire. A trip to an exotic destination or a new addition to a treasured collection of art is sure to be a great surprise.
  • Set a budget. If you know how much you want to spend, you can narrow down your search and find the perfect gift without breaking the bank.
  • Plan ahead. If you’re getting something made or plan to order something custom, you will need plenty of time to plan ahead.
  • Make it personal. Whether you plan to go all out with a big, expensive gift or want to stick to something a bit more subdued, your gift will be all the more meaningful if it comes from the heart.

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